Tweak default uncached mention lookup and member caching

common/src/main/java/com/discordsrv/common/config/main/MemberCachingConfig.java

@@ -33,7 +33,7 @@ public class MemberCachingConfig {
 
     @Comment("If all members should be cached\n"
             + "Requires the \"Server Members Intent\"")
-    public boolean all = false;
+    public boolean all = true;
 
     @Comment("If members should be cached at startup\n"
             + "Requires the \"Server Members Intent\"")

common/src/main/java/com/discordsrv/common/config/main/channels/MinecraftToDiscordChatConfig.java

@@ -83,8 +83,9 @@ public class MinecraftToDiscordChatConfig implements IMessageConfig {
         public boolean users = true;
 
         @Comment("If uncached users should be looked up from the Discord API when a mention (\"@something\") occurs in chat.\n"
-                + "The player needs the discordsrv.mention.lookup.user permission for uncached members to be looked up")
-        public boolean uncachedUsers = true;
+                + "The player needs the discordsrv.mention.lookup.user permission for uncached members to be looked up\n"
+                + "This WILL cause sending messages to be delayed")
+        public boolean uncachedUsers = false;
 
         @Comment("If @everyone and @here mentions should be enabled\n"
                 + "The player needs the discordsrv.mention.everyone permission to render the mention and trigger a notification")

common/src/main/java/com/discordsrv/common/feature/mention/MentionCachingModule.java

@@ -56,7 +56,7 @@ import java.util.stream.Collectors;
 
 public class MentionCachingModule extends AbstractModule<DiscordSRV> {
 
-    private static final Pattern USER_MENTION_PATTERN = Pattern.compile("@[a-z0-9_.]{2,32}");
+    private static final Pattern USER_MENTION_PATTERN = Pattern.compile("(?<!<)@[a-z0-9_.]{2,32}");
 
     private final Map<Long, Map<Long, CachedMention>> memberMentions = new ConcurrentHashMap<>();
     private final Map<Long, Cache<String, CachedMention>> memberMentionsCache = new ConcurrentHashMap<>();