In [59224], customizer accordion item HTML structure was changed to include a `button` element as the interactive control. However, some themes inject custom markup for panel headings.
Fix `controls.js` to handle both the new markup and the old markup, which is relatively common in themes.
Props paullb, desrosj, sabernhardt, joedolson, jorbin.
Fixes#62494.
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